It is what it should be. Men should be the one to pay as it can also show that you can take care of the girl and that you are able to take care of her. It also shows that you are a responsible man. But it also depends on the situation. If the girl insists to pay or the guy cannot pay for some acceptable reason, then that’s okay. For me, being a girl, I want the guy to pay because it has this feeling that he can take care of me. But there are times that I want to pay and I insist in paying. Actually, I pay for my dates sometimes. [DOUBLEPOST=1545324513][/DOUBLEPOST] Yeah, I agree with you. It’s a shame to let the girl pay if you are courting. But if you are already in a relationship and both of you are already very comfortable with each other, anyone can pay. I’m a girl and I don’t mind paying for dates or our get aways.